Twin Cities, MN & Northern, IL

Elizabeth Bockman, M.P.H.

Youth Etiquette Programs

Reservations

The following programs can be scheduled according to any desired time and location. Upcoming events are exempt.

Young Adults: Prep For Success

Everyday Etiquette presentations are for high school students wanting to gain an edge on living on their own successfully.

Topics can include: goal setting, money management, first impressions, interviewing tips, positive work ethic, and relationship building skills.

Young Adults: Leadership, Interviewing and other Soft Skills for the Successful Student

Everyday Etiquette presentations can give the college or professional bound student the confidence he/she needs in conquering the admittance or job interview. The interactive presentation will focus on first impressions, proper attire and introductions, how to answer and ask appropriate questions, and other conversational techniques. These presentations are best for high school students or older, wanting to gain the leadership edge.

Young Adults: Collegiate to Corporate World

Everyday Etiquette presentations can give the college or professional bound student the confidence he/she needs in conquering the admittance or job interview. The interactive presentation will focus on first impressions, proper attire and introductions, how to answer and ask appropriate questions, and other conversational techniques. These presentations are best for high school students or older, wanting to gain the leadership edge.

Birthday Parties And Tea Parties

An interactive presentation can compliment any gathering or event you may be having for your friends or your child’s next party.

These parties are ideal for daisy, brownies or girl scout troops.

Dining Skills

Students will learn why manners are important. Good manners attract others to us and help us get what we want out of life…friends, success, and happiness. In this session, students will learn how to correctly set the table and eat American style and Continental style. Gentleman will learn how to hold the chair for a lady and the five things to remember about your napkin.

Dating, Dining and Prom Etiquette

Who pays? Who asks? What to wear? How to carry on a conversation? These are some of the questions that are covered in this presentation. This presentation starts with asking and receiving invitations for a date, prom, etc.. The presentation covers the two main rules of dining in a restaurant, including topics of receiving food, styles of dining, concluding the meal, and paying the bill. This can also be set up as a field trip with students attending a real luncheon at a local restaurant. This is fun way to put into practice dining etiquette and is a favorite among students.

*Additional cost of meal.

 

First Impressions

Students will learn why manners are important. Good manners attract others to us and help us get what we want out of life…friends, success, and happiness. In this session, students will learn how to correctly set the table and eat American style and Continental style. Gentleman will learn how to hold the chair for a lady and the five things to remember about your napkin.

Civility At School

This presentation covers the importance of respect for self and others, taking responsibility for your actions, rules in the classroom, on the playground, in the lunchroom, how to deal with a bully, and gossip.

Manners at Home and in Public Places

Good manners start at home. The presentation addresses the eight R’s of getting along with those you live with. Students are given specific homework to help build positive relationships.

Reading, Writing, Arithmetic and Good Manners.

Researchers have found social skills are just as important to children’s academic success as the subjects they study. After implementation of an etiquette curriculum in one year:

  • 10-13% increase of academic growth, compared to a 0-4% increase in the district schools who had not implemented the curriculum.
  • When etiquette skills are taught, problem behaviors are reduced, learning time is maximized, lending to academic success.

Truth: Schools can’t afford not to teach social skills.

  • Schools use left over money from previous years Title 1 funds to provide manners and social skills to their students.
  • Parent and teacher and civic organizations such as Rotary clubs, help fund etiquette courses in schools.

Truth: It’s cost-effective to include manners in the curriculum.

According to Public Agenda, school districts lose money as a result of:

  • A forty-three percent (43%) loss of productivity-teaching academics, because of time wasted dealing with behavioral issues….

Cost: Students lost opportunities to learn….priceless

  • A thirty percent (30%) of turn-over of teachers leaving because of discipline problems in the classrooms……

Cost: An estimated $1million per year for the average sized school of 450 students.

Studies at Harvard University, Stanford Research Institute, and the Carnegie Foundation report:

  • “Social skills are the great equalizer; good social skills transcend social class, economic status, academic achievement, and race.”
  • Repeated studies show, that up to eighty-five (85%) of a child’s future success depends on social skills-more than academic achievement, or economic or family background.

Customized Presentations

Customized presentation available for preschool to high school students, including collegiate, but not limited to undergraduate and graduate, but also for professional level or other school affiliated programs such as:

  • Enhancing and enriching character development education
  • Supplementing college and career service offerings
  • Extracurricular school organizations and programs
  • Student leadership and government organizations
  • Athletic departments and teams
  • After School Enrichment Programs
  • Youth organizations including boy and girl scoutsyouth church groups
  • YMCAs
  • Interfraternity and PanHellenic groups
  • Undergraduate and graduate level degree programs and organizations, including MBAlaw and medical school programs.

Private Consultation

Private consultations are available upon request. Please contact for more information.

Schedule A Class

Contact Liz to schedule a class. Got questions? Call 815-985-2078.